• Attn: If you were on the old forum, you may have to reset your password!

My Mother is going in for hart surgery

elkad

elkad

Well-known member
My mother went in for a check up last Friday & found she had At rial Fibrillation. She's going in for surgery to take a vain from her leg & put in her hart. I pray to god she gets threw it. She's my only form of transportation to get to repair the house, feed the cats & try to find a way to get a drivers license & job. My brother's all ready ticked off I have to share his apartment, he's even more ticked he has to share money & transportation for my living needs. If my mother doesn't get threw this, I will lose all hope in doing anything any more.
 
I just found out second hand information from my brother, she had triple bypass surgery, a valve replacement & a hole from one vain mixing into the wrong vain.
 
My mother came threw all right, she's with my father in the same nursing home he is. Getting her up was trouble, she fell twice trying to get out of the bed, (sore from the vain transplant), to transfer her to the nursing home. They eventually had to use a winch to get her in the ambulance & into her new bed. Took her a couple days to get out of her drug state, (a little loopy), & is now getting rehab to walk again. She also has double vision from the surgery, for some reason.
 
elkad said:
My mother came threw all right, she's with my father in the same nursing home he is. Getting her up was trouble, she fell twice trying to get out of the bed, (sore from the vain transplant), to transfer her to the nursing home. They eventually had to use a winch to get her in the ambulance & into her new bed. Took her a couple days to get out of her drug state, (a little loopy), & is now getting rehab to walk again. She also has double vision from the surgery, for some reason.
Click to expand...

Jesus bud, hoping shes comfortable and gets to healing where she is now.
 
Seph said:
Jesus bud, hoping shes comfortable and gets to healing where she is now.
Click to expand...
She's getting rest & rehabilitation. Having her walk around with a walker. I'm stuck with my brother. He says he doesn't feel like helping me. He just wants to get off work, go back to his apartment, play games & watch YouTube. I have no car, drivers license, bank account, & no help. If only I had a car & drivers license, I can be more self sufficient. Get a job & help pay for the medical bill. A thousand a month staying at the nursing home. My mother & father did the same routine over & over ignoring me. Now my brother is doing the same with more ignoring me. I love them & help them every chance I get. Hauling stuff, fixing things, caring grocery's, washing dishes. All I ask is for a little help, & they get upset saying I'm making excuses. I hate myself that I'm not as smart as they are to automatically know what to do & how to do it. I'm useless & know nothing.
 
Mate, you need some confidence. Saying you're not smart will only be a self fulfilling prophecy. There's not a lot I can do to help from this side of the great pond, but I do wish you luck with this, I know it can't be easy.
 
I lost all hope. They're selling the house to pay for the nursing home bill. They've turned off the electricity. I don't know what to do, say, or think. I'm going to have to lock up the house, take my cat Oggy to my brother apartment. The only reason to come back to the house is to take things out of the house. All I needed was a driver's license to be self-sufficient. Now my family is taking too long in helping me. Now I've lost all chance of keeping the house as a home. I won't be making any more project threads. I won't have any reason to.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top